that my first ICSP programming attempt!!

I have a PIC 18F14K50 and I use the schematic from Synthex V.3.2 PCB - it's like this from dmitri :
http://www.megadrum.info/forums/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=702
But what have I done yet???


Can I use the cable like this: http://www.megadrum.info/schematics.php
Or must I have a other occupancy???
Why is the PIC pin 7 connected to pin 1 from the ICSP but the pin 1 from the cable is free???
Can I connect the 9Pin SubD simply to the Com Port from my PC??
What simple programm can I use which suports the PIC18F14K50??
Bye and THANKS!!

Manuel